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2014 is finally here. That means a huge surge in the number of divorce papers is about to occur in Michigan and around the country. Whether couples have waited to file until after the holidays in order to maintain a false sense of happiness, or simply because they want to start 2014 anew, the reality of the situation is that, once the difficult decision has been made to move forward with a divorce, there are several items that both parties should be aware of before the process begins.
First and foremost, life will change. Spouses will no longer be living together; children may no longer see both of their parents every day, perhaps not even every week. Household expenses could double, such as rent or mortgages and utilities. Other bills may become one ex-spouse’s sole responsibility, such as school uniforms and school team equipment.
Professional advice can be very worthwhile. Options are available to help protect one’s belongings and assets throughout the divorce process. There are also those who can help explain the legal jargon that is confusing to the common layperson. While the divorce process takes time and energy, it is often in the client’s best interest to take advantage of the expertise to which they have access.
More couples are coming to realize that no one truly wins in a divorce, as many compromises must be made, especially if there are children involved. This may mean giving up the pool table or the favorite piece of artwork for the sake of ending the marriage as amicably as possible. This will show the children that a divorce can end in a relatively friendly manner, one which keeps the interests of the children as the focus. If Michigan parents are having a hard time dealing with the process on their own, they may wish to consult someone who can help them navigate those waters carefully.
Source: The Huffington Post, 5 Nuances of Divorce You Need to Know, Kerri Zane, Dec. 26, 2013