HOW DOES A COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE WORK?

When it comes to divorce, no two cases are identical. Since each case is handled differently, and there are few different ways to arrive at the conclusion of a divorce, spouses need to decide how they want to proceed and who they will ask for help. While many divorces are ugly, contentious battles for money, possessions, and child custody, a collaborate divorce is often the preferred choice for spouses who are willing to work together to make the divorce process move more quickly and smoothly.

For a collaborative divorce, you will still hire your own divorce attorney so that they can assist you in negotiating a settlement agreement. Your spouse will do the same, and whenever you have a meeting, the four of you will participate in the negotiation. It is important to meet with your attorney alone before the meeting so that he or she can know exactly what you want or need out of the divorce. In order for a collaborative divorce to work, both attorneys must sign a “no court” agreement that states that if the divorce proceeds to litigation, both attorneys will withdraw from the case. This rule ensures that both attorneys attempt to solve disputes to the best of their ability in these meetings.

During this process, you can hire other professionals, such as child custody specialists if you have children. The goal of this process is to settle your divorce in a way that works for the entire family. Sometimes, a licensed mediator is brought in because they are skilled in directing each party to come to a fair agreement.

While a collaborative divorce isn’t the best choice for every couple, it might be the best way for you and your spouse to end your marriage in the easiest and least harmful way. If you’re contemplating divorce, or you’re already going through the process and you’re looking for better representation, contact Bailey Smith & Bailey today to schedule a consultation with an attorney who has extensive experience fighting for the rights of men like you in countless divorce cases across the state. Contact us today!