Not every divorce divides families along lines of battle. There are many instances in which a Michigan couple decides to end their marriage with a minimum of stress and turmoil. For these couples, collaboration offers an alternative path to divorce, and one that has a wide range of benefits to all involved.
Collaboration begins with a formal agreement between spouses that both sides will make an effort to resolve their issues outside of court. By beginning with the shared goal of working through the process together, the stage is set for a less contentious and more objective process. When difficulties arise, each spouse is able to approach the matter with an eye toward resolution, not in the spirit of battle.
Kids whose parents use the collaborative method gain a range of benefits. They are spared having to watch their parents fight and struggle over issues surrounding their care and well-being. They gain a valuable example of how to resolve conflict in a rational and reasonable way. Even more importantly, parents who choose a collaborative divorce are also learning skills that will help them to work together in their new roles as co-parents in the years to come.
For those in Michigan who believe that collaboration is a good fit for their needs, it is easy to learn more about the process and the pros and cons. A divorce attorney who is trained in the collaborative method can answer questions about this approach, and can also guide their client toward a favorable outcome. Collaboration is becoming a popular choice among Michigan spouses who want a less contentious and more productive way to end their marriage.
Source: Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, Collaborative divorce avoids going to court to settle differences, Kim Lyons, Oct. 7, 2013