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If you share joint custody with your ex-wife, you know how maddening it can be trying to advocate for your kids’ well being with someone who just doesn’t share the same concerns. While some difficult communication can be expected, if your children are showing signs of getting physically, psychologically, verbally, or sexually abused by your ex-wife, it’s extremely important to contact a family law attorney as soon possible to keep your children safe and protect them from potential long-term damage.
File a Report
The threshold for filing a police report is only that you have a “reasonable suspicion” for abuse. You don’t have to wait until your kids come home with bruises, something that might not ever happen since abusers are typically good at hiding their crimes. Make sure to contact the police and Child Protective Services right away and tell them everything you know, then get in touch with a reputable child custody lawyer to go over your options. Don’t coach your child to answer their questions in a certain way, as this can be seen as manipulation and can actually hurt your chances of proving abuse.
Document Everything and Stay Calm
Though the thought of someone hurting your kids might throw you into a rage, it’s extremely important for you to keep a clear head during this crisis. Doing something rash or violent could be used to justify giving your ex full custody. Instead, keep a detailed log of every piece of evidence you have, so that you can construct a detailed timeline for investigators.
At the Law Offices of Bailey Smith & Bailey, we know how difficult it can be for you if your ex-wife is mistreating your children. That’s why we have a team of experienced legal experts who use proven strategies to help father fight for their children’s rights. Contact us today for a free consultation!